G. Sundari of Kalakshetra passed away on
the morning of 3 February 2022 in a comfortable Home in Chennai. She was 93
years old. She served Kalakshetra as Superintendent of studies, was Secretary
to Rukmini Devi and Sankara Menon till she retired. She was a close friend of
N. Ram of The Hindu. She had her
education at the Besant Theosophical High School. After post graduation, she
joined Kalakshetra, assisting Rukmini Devi and Sankara Menon to build the
institution. Her dedicated service to Kalakshetra is laudable. She lived in the
Theosophical Society in Adyar, Chennai, for a long time. She was instrumental
in helping publish three books on Kalakshetra stalwarts: Nirmalam: The genius of S. Sarada, Sankara Menon Purushothaman, and
Krishnaveni of Kalakshetra.
Thanks to Preetha Reddy (of Apollo Hospitals),
Sundari Teacher as she was popularly
known, had a good and very comfortable old age care in a Home for the last few
years. With her demise, another important branch of the ‘Banyan Tree’ has fallen.
G. Sundari was a kind hearted lady. She
helped poor students with financial help out of her own meagre
salary from Kalakshetra. One of the senior alumnus of
Kalakshetra (P.T. Narendran) says he was offered free accommodation
in her house in the Theosophical Society campus till he found his
own economical accommodation near Thiruvanmiyur. She paid
the tuition fee for some of the poor students who wanted to study natyam
and music in Kalakshetra.
She encouraged me to study and asked me to
join the Matriculation classes much against the wishes of Rukmini Devi and
others. She took classes in English, history and geography. I owe my
English writing and speaking abilities to Sundari Teacher.
When Kalakshetra was taken over by the new
management (Kalakshetra Foundation) both the strong pillars of the
institution were asked to retire and vacate the campus -- Sundari
gave shelter at her home in the Theosophical Society, Adyar to Sarada Teacher (Peria
Sarada) and looked after her like her own mother, though she was not even a
biological or blood relation. Unequivocally, every one praised G. Sundari for her humane
quality.
She was an animal lover and fed all the
stray dogs and cats in the Theosophical gardens. When we helped her
move from her home in the Theosophical Society to a new house on Harrington Road, while
clearing her desk we found paid and
unpaid bills of cats and dogs
food to the tune of nearly 14,000 rupees! She shared her carrier
meals from the Theosophical Society’s bhojanshala with these stray animals who
remained very loyal to her. When she realised that she was being
taken to a safer and comfortable home, the first thing she asked was
“Who will take care of the poor animals, and requested us not to starve
them”. Such was her concern for animals. She was a true ‘pranimitra’
following her mentor Rukmini Devi.
One of her nieces, Subha Nilakhantan,
recalls her relationship with her “Athai”
as she called her.
V.P. Dhananjayan
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Everybody’s aunt
Subha Nilakhantan
I had two aunts who extended to me the caring hand of a
mother. One was my father’s sister, Radha Burnier; the other was my mother’s
sister, G. Sundari. They were themselves friends, who together saw to my
well-being whenever I was away from my parents.
My aunt Sundari was born on 21 February 1929 in Tanjavur,
where she lived with her family in a large house next to the Big Temple. The
youngest of six children, she was four years old when her father, M.V.
Gopalakrishnan, inspired by the Theosophists, gifted away all his property, and
moved with his wife Rukmini Ammal and their children to serve the Theosophical
Society (TS) at Adyar.
Adyar lay on the outskirts of the city. Young Sundari grew
up in beautiful natural surroundings, became a favourite with everyone, and
made many friends in and outside school. She kept contact with most of them
until old age. My grandfather was a scholar by temperament; the house was
filled with books. My aunt inherited this quality. At University, she earned a
Masters with Distinction in Political Science, and spent long hours
communicating with prison inmates for her Ph.D thesis. Unfortunately, her guide
lost the thesis. There were no xerox machines then -- and no copy! Accepting that it was too
daunting a task to re-do, she looked ahead towards other avenues. The Theosophical
Society and Kalakshetra were closely aligned at that time. The most attractive
avenue led to Kalakshetra -- and thus, she devoted her life work between the
two institutions.
My grandparents’ house was open to everyone, always filled
with visitors, and in the summertime with their grandchildren. My aunt Sundari
was a favourite. We could tease her -- and she laughed with us. An aunt who put
on no ceremonial airs! She had the rare gift of making every child feel
special. She called me ‘Honeypot’. For long, I thought I was the only
‘honeypot’, until I realised all children were her ‘honeypots’, to be cherished
alike. She took me to concerts, dance performances, to doctors, nursed me to
health, and gave me my first professional assignment when I was still a student
-- painting posters for Kalakshetra dance-dramas.
She maintained the ‘open house’ tradition after my
grandparents were no more, and kept her promise to my grandmother to care for S.
Sarada (Peria Sarada). We began to call her Sarada Periamma. I still regard
Periamma as a dear member of our family. My aunt gave shelter to many who
needed a home, whether dance students, foreign visitors, or the destitute. Even
animals were cared for. She helped innumerable people in as many ways. She was
everybody’s aunt.
We travelled together on her foreign lecture tours. I found
her an ideal travelling companion, careful but eager for adventures. She was
talking about travelling together again to the Andamans, a few years before she
fell ill and was shifted to a Home by her doctors and friends. She remained in
Chennai for medical attention, where her students took wonderful care of her. When
she passed away, I am sure she left behind her Andamans dream after travelling
into God’s incomparable realms, and there is no wish left to travel anywhere
else.
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